Ki Teitzei
Don't make promises Unless ready to keep them Your word is your bond
Deuteronomy 23:22-24When you make a pledge to G-d, do not be late in paying it, since G-d will then demand it, and you will have committed a sin. If you refrain from making vows completely, then you will not sin. But when you have spoken, be careful of your word and keep the pledge that you have vowed to G-d.The text probably refers to vows made concerning offerings to G-d. But this is good advice for any promises made, including those made to another person. As we approach the High Holy Days it's a good time to reflect on promises broken and forgiveness that must be sought. Then, in the coming year, to take care not to make promises we aren't prepared to keep.